TALKS Mentoring
of Champaign County
The TALKS Leadership Program Training
Understanding the Weight of Your Personality
Considering Personality and Principles
Principles without personality
Principles with personality
Mentors a personality in the lives of children
The Visual Impact
The kids look at your clothes, shoes, hair or lack thereof.
If you have a friendly looking face or a stern looking face
The Aromatic Impact
The daddy smell or mommy smell.
A cologne that may be new to them.
The smell of your industry.
Body Type – Endomorph, Ectomorph, Mesamorph
If your physical makeup excited them, use it to your advantage.
The Conversational Impact
Your ability to use the English language
Your ability to use contemporary youth language.
The Empathizing Impact
Your ability to feel their pain and hurt when it surfaces.
Your willingness to put yourself in their shoes.
The Expectation Impact
The ability to have and share high expectations for the kids.
The ability to weave your high expectations of them into much of your dialogue with them.
The habit of sharing your high expectations of the children with others who interact with the children.